Suspect Indicted For Assaulting a 9-Year-Old Girl

Who's to say it wasn't the family's ignorance that allowed it to occur in the first place? This story doesn't detail anything about that side of things, surely you can't believe that families aren't responsible to be aware of who's doing what around their kids.

If someone is paying attention, they would have caught this bastard in the act, sometime over 2 years, and been within their rights to use force, up to deadly force, to stop them here in Tx.

Too many times these stories come down to negligent parenting... It's not the "systems" fault these pervs exist and do what they do, if they weren't allowed access by the family to the kid, this wouldn't happen as easily.

That's why the law allows us to stop them, we have to have discernment about who we leave our kids around and be ready to catch the idiots that would try this stuff.

Sad because we can stop the abuse if we care enough before some crap happens. Usually it's too little too late.

Just like Covid, people all imagine this stuff happens to other people and never secure their family by imagining how it could happen.

I can speak from what my wife had to endure and I can tell you that her family allowed sexual abuse to go on for years unfettered because they didn't care enough to take it to the law. I just want to highlight some things in the hopes that people won't be afraid to take action where they spot this evil.

The whole story wasn't told, I wasn't defending predatory actions, if I see someone watching porn in the presence of a child, I'm calling the police...
I consider that past the point of "careless".

It's our parental responsibility to ensure the safety of our children, in our society, many are not responsible.

Why would you even hint that I would defend predatory behavior because I pointed out parental responsibility as a main factor... I hold myself personally accountable to my childrens wellbeing and I don't take the job lightly.

Don't know what was confusing about that to you but I'll never defend sexual predation.

Sarcasm isn't appropriate in every circumstance Rita, but like masks and parental responsibility the choice is ultimately yours.

People can read our dialogue and take it for what it is, if you insinuate again that I mean anything other than what I said already, who are they going to think is playing?

After reading the first comment on the story, I pointed out a truth about the contrasting possibility since neither one of us has the details on this story, thought I cleared that up and also included personal experience to add perspective.

I don't know what the first thing you think is when you hear a story about abuse that went on for a period of 2 years but I think of how it sure wasn't that girls fault. A legal gaurdian of some sort was responsible for her well being during that period whether trust was violated or not.

This kind of crap is so vile it should be prevented through pro activity on the guardians behalf. Unfortunately, we live in a broken world and while this case may not turn out to be that way, it is in too many other cases.

All these sex offenders should be held accountable no matter their method of operation and it looks like in this case that happened. Sorry if your idea of parenting and mine are different, I just know how I feel about my duty to my children and what the law says about a parents responsibility to provide adequate care for their children. Was pointing out a good question that we will probably find out soon through SAL, how did this happen?

Never heard of a sex offender threatening the parents of a victim.

Are you citing a specific case or personal experience?

I'm sorry for all the people who were victimized and never saw justice, too many families and gaurdians are wrong for turning a blind eye to the abuse in fear... If they aren't straight up participating in the abuse themselves.

On the flip side, there are cases where the parents were decieved, and that is hurtful to all parties involved, but that's not what I'm talking about and I think you know that.

At least our dialogue had some informative links posted, have a good night Ms. Repulsa.

https://youtu.be/Di79CfuOi04

https://youtu.be/6kcKX2In0B0

https://youtu.be/0voJfsDnjXU

Hey.. Judge Judy, Rita Repulsive, Scary Feces and Mesomedumb...with the amount of garbage that's posted I would assume that there really is nothing better to do than proudly boast about the good old days and witches, for the defense off sex offenders who like children because kids tells lies... ? Not sure if this dude is guilty... Just because the victim is a child does not mean they are necessarily lying but hey, you should know that if you have children like you said Judge Judy, then you would probably know that children do lie but wait for it ... hold on... yep, they also have the capacity to tell the truth, not just on things such as sexaul encounters !! Golly bet you didnt know that did ya?? It seems so crazy to me that their are so many negative people against Nate Dogg's arguement... Let's use some our common sense.
1. Nate Points out the law should handle this due to, um, hello, could be the parent who is guilty and if that were the case, yes, you guessed it, there would be no justice for the child if they stay in that environment.
2 . Nate Points out that not everything from a child is a lie... ok, at this point, that's pretty clear.
3.Judge Judy, has clearly confused Mesomedumb's response with Nate's and in fact she was the one in agreance with you about kids not having the capacity to tell the truth... They are all little liars...
4. I was a victim of Stockholm syndrome from being groomed and "loved" by my abuser and when I finally did say something at the ripe old age of 8, my mom must have misheard me because of the odd response she gave me " when I was in foster care, I was also abused" end quote.
The abuse continued for another 4 years but I thought telling an adult would work... They must've handled it in their own "family" way.

Seems simple right ? Adults should not participate in any sexual acts with a child regardless of the willingness of the child... Only seems to make sense to me but hey, you and your fellow weirdos are the experts on this grotesque issue , Scary Feces has the most experience if you read his take on it over the span of some years. I get it, there are tons of people who will defend and argue sick behavior, even go as far as justifying it, they think it should be legal, so maybe that would be a better place to jot down your opinion, pedo's are already signing petitions to diddle little kids legally as a part of LGBTQ and now P... Sorry people dont get that this is wrong and a real issue but I'm with you Nate, we are responsible for our children and who they are around. Thank you Nate for speaking out against pedophiles diddling kids. Not always are the parents guilty but hey, it happens... Not always is Uncle Joe is showing his junk to the kids but hey, it happens... so best be safe than sorry, let's be proactive against allowing the predatory behavior, not reactive.

https://youtu.be/sEEQc4NAmeE

Pause the video and read what this youtuber wrote, it is important because this is the loophole that's letting sexual predators run rampant in our State.

As for parents and their responsibilities, I agree with Nate to some extent, as I take the wellbeing of my boys extremely seriously and I fail to understand how a parent can be mislead by sexual deviants. Perhaps I've sheltered my children in the same manner that I was sheltered which in my own opinion was way too damn much. However, the saying, "You won't know if you over reacted until after the fact, but if you underreact you'll regret it," holds true. That being said, perhaps I should give some advice that I follow for any parent who is wondering whether or not they are over or under reacting. Perhaps it may help protect a kid.

1) if an adult who isn't a grandparent (even sometimes grandparents) seems overly willing to babysit your kids, overly accommodating, doesn't want to be paid, isnt upset by any aspect of the process etc be leery of this person. Ask yourself, if it were me watching someone's kids this often for this many hours would I be just ever so thrilled to do so?

2) does this person have children and if so are there children well adjusted happy and otherwise socially normal? If someone's kids starts acting out sexually, keep YOUR children away from any adults in the other child's life including your own family members

3) ladies this ones for us...are you morbidly obese? Are you what most would consider homely (ugly)? Thats okay! We're all different, no big deal. DO be leery of men whom are visually out of your league trying too hard to date you, being too nice to you, etc if they know you have children. DO NOT allow or encourage them to be alone with your kids, and DO NOT state in your profile that you have kids on any dating site. Child molesters use women's lack of self esteem to gain access to their children. Its the most common tactic they use. You have a great personality, im sure. Don't be stupid.

4) trust your instincts, if something seems off, whether they're a child molester or otherwise, something is likely off. Regardless of why you may get this feeling about a person you don't want your kids around them. Do not ignore this feeling

5) it could be your brother, your uncle, your female cousin, it could be anyone. It is NOT your responsibility to care what other people think of your parenting decisions and if someone is mad because you won't leave your kids with them they're a bad egg most of the time.

6) Child molesters are wolves in sheep's clothing in every single way. They may tell you of their own childhood abuse and cry about it, all while gaining pity. These things are often cyclic and one abuser creates another.

Personally, I don't like it when a guy pays my kids too much attention. Id prefer them be abivalent or even slightly annoyed. You can teach someone to love your kids and they can learn, you CAN NOT teach a child molester not to molest.
Again, maybe I'm far too protective. I'm sure there is a happy medium, but I'm not willing to play around with where it's at.